Tobi Nifesi
home About Services FAQs Essays Letters
Book a call
homeAboutServicesFAQsEssaysLetters
Tobi Nifesi
Vancouver-based author, ghostwriter and journalist
Book a call
 

Letters from the first and the 15th

The first and the 15th is a biweekly newsletter (seriously, you only receive it on the first and the 15th of each month) where I share my worldview as a human writer in a world where writing is increasingly being underappreciated.

I explore the concept of using writing, reading, and books as a way to share ideas and start meaningful conversations. And just for the fun of it, I may include a book recommendation so you can add it to the growing stack of books you buy but never actually read. Yes, you.

Subscribe here

Sign to receive the letters from the first and the 15th

I respect your privacy. No one will ever know. Trust me, I’m a ghostwriter.

Thank you!

See you on the first or the 15th.

 
Maybe, the fault is in our stars?
Maybe, the fault is in our stars?

If the cost of everything is on the rise, supplies of essential goods are running low, and the real solutions to local and global crises are beyond anything that we can, individually or collectively, do, I wonder if our only viable option is to chuck it all up to fate, faith, or something else.

Read More
the first and the 15thTobi NifesiMarch 15, 2022Tobi NifesiPsychology
This side of the screen
This side of the screen

On the eve of my daughter’s 4th month birthday, hell broke loose 8,800 kilometres away. As my household reflected on 118 days of blissful babblings and unbridled joy, 44 million people began the first of an untold number of days of panic and chaos.

Read More
the first and the 15thTobi NifesiMarch 1, 2022Tobi NifesiPolitics
Coastlines and Cliffs.
Coastlines and Cliffs.

I want a disease-free world for my family and friends. Particularly, a world free from that virus.

Read More
the first and the 15thTobi NifesiFebruary 15, 2022Tobi NifesiPandemic
Start again
Start again

We need beginnings to make sense of endings. Good storytellers understand this, and so they find ways to hide the beginning of their stories from their audience.

Read More
the first and the 15thTobi NifesiFebruary 1, 2022Tobi NifesiStorytelling
Reality vs You
Reality vs You

It’s mid-January, so, it’s that time of the month when many people realize that their new year resolutions weren’t so realistic after all.

Read More
the first and the 15thTobi NifesiJanuary 15, 2022Tobi NifesiFaith, Psychology
Happy 2022
Happy 2022

Thanks for being a part of this community of readers. I’m looking forward to sharing more thoughts and memories with you this year.

Read More
the first and the 15thTobi NifesiJanuary 1, 2022
As seen in context
As seen in context

Cast your mind back to a time when you had all sorts of plans drawn up and, from there, follow the blueprints back to the present.

Read More
the first and the 15thTobi NifesiDecember 15, 2021Tobi NifesiPsychology
On Finishing Well
On Finishing Well

I’m learning to let my moments of excitement linger far longer than the event that got me excited in the first place. I’m doing this to hack myself to always do what it takes to finish well.

Read More
Tobi NifesiDecember 1, 2021Tobi NifesiIdeas, Psychology
nemesis catches up with us
nemesis catches up with us

I don’t understand the concept of time. Of course, at a high level, I know what time means in the context of a clock, the Gregorian calendar, or the rotation of the earth and its revolution around the sun. But, as a concept, I have no clue what time means.

Read More
the first and the 15thTobi NifesiNovember 15, 2021Tobi NifesiTime
hello parenthood
hello parenthood

Lerit and I realize how incredibly blessed and privileged we are to be parents and are looking forward to stepping into this next phase of our lives and relationship.

Read More
the first and the 15thTobi NifesiNovember 1, 2021Tobi NifesiFatherhood
no letter today
no letter today

I couldn’t bring myself to scribble down anything meaningful today.

Read More
the first and the 15thTobi NifesiOctober 15, 2021Tobi Nifesi
“I don’t understand, but sure.”
“I don’t understand, but sure.”

“I don’t understand, but sure.” — these were some of the last words someone, who died recently, said to me about two and a half years ago.

Read More
the first and the 15thTobi NifesiOctober 1, 2021Tobi NifesiDeath, Psychology
when do you ask for help?
when do you ask for help?

I wonder if there’s a part of me that doesn’t quite understand what help really means.

Read More
the first and the 15thTobi NifesiSeptember 15, 2021Tobi NifesiPsychology, Mentorship
activities are overrated.
activities are overrated.

So, if you tend to liken life to activity, remember that sometimes, activity can suck the life out of you.

Read More
the first and the 15thTobi NifesiSeptember 1, 2021Tobi NifesiTime
How do you define community?
How do you define community?

What does community really mean?

Read More
the first and the 15thTobi NifesiAugust 15, 2021Tobi Nifesi
Sorry, I don’t know.
Sorry, I don’t know.

Instead of shying away completely from apologies or saying them too often, I’m learning how to say and use them meaningfully.

Read More
the first and the 15thTobi NifesiAugust 1, 2021Tobi NifesiPsychology
a time to be brief.
a time to be brief.

Maybe it’s time we focused more on the little, few things that matter and less on the excesses that tend to lurk around. Maybe it’s time to be brief.

Read More
the first and the 15thTobi NifesiJuly 15, 2021Tobi NifesiCreativity, Patience
how’s the weather?
how’s the weather?

It’s time to rethink this icebreaker

Read More
the first and the 15thTobi NifesiJuly 1, 2021
Newer Older

Tobi is a member of the Federation of BC Writers, the Association of Ghostwriters and The Ghostwriters Agency

Tobi Nifesi - Federation of BC Writer
GWA_Member_BK.png
Tobi Nifesi - Association of Ghostwriters
PorfolioNovellasBylinesContact

©2024 tobi nifesi. all rights reserved